Why You Should Have a Sexual Bucket List and 50 Items To Add To It

Everyone likes the idea of a spicier and more exciting sex life, but how do you actually get there? Read on to see why creating a sexual bucket list is the key to unlocking a new level of sexual connection with your partner, and check out 50 sex ideas to add to the list.

Why you should have a sexual bucket list

You’ve heard of a bucket list before, but how about a sexual bucket list? This is a list you and your partner can create together, full of exciting ideas you’ve always wanted to try, and then you can return to it over and over again. Working through a sexual bucket list together is a fun challenge to build up your sexual connection. When you’re in the mood for something new, pull out the list and pick one.

Another reason that building a sexual bucket list is so helpful is that it keeps great ideas in one place. Have you ever had an awesome idea, only for it to slip away before the time was right? This happens in all parts of life, not just sex. With a sexual bucket list, you can take those ‘Hey, wouldn’t it be fun if…’ moments and turn them into promises for the future.

We’ve got the top 50 ideas for you to add to your sexual bucket list with your partner to build more sexual connection with one another. Take a look:

50 Items for Your Sexual Bucket List

#1 - Have some steamy shower sex

#2 - Have birthday sex
#3 - Have sex by a roaring fire

#4 - Do it on a washing machine
#5 - Have fully-clothed sex

#6 - Have make-up sex
#7 - Try out different kinds of lube to find a favorite
#8 - Have some post-workout sex
#9 - Do a lip gloss taste test

#10 - Give your partner a massage… and see where it goes
#11 - Have passionate quickie sex
#12 - Do Yoga together, but do it naked
#13 - Choose just one item of clothing to keep on during sex
#14 - Have sex on a camping trip
#15 - Play strip-poker (winner takes all!)

#16 - Agree to go a week without sex, but make sure to tease each other enough to keep the tension building
#17 - Have vacation sex 
#18 - Attempt to have silent sex
#19 - Switch things up - if you’re usually initiating or taking the lead, let your partner do it
#20 - Send a calendar invite for sex
#21 - Have a naked pillow fight

#22 - Have sex in the bed of a pick up truck
#23 - Take your lunch break to meet up for fast sex

#24 - Try a quickie wearing a skirt or a dress
#25 - Spend all day naked
#26 - Have a passionate make-out session with no agenda
#27 - Shop for some lingerie together
#28 - Start out with a wrestling contest on the mattress
#29 - Get and give a hickey

#30 - Play truth or dare
#31 - Describe a favorite sexual memory – in detail
#32 - Invest in some body paints

#33 - Have a lingerie fashion show
#34 - Play naked twister
#35 - Start by acting out a scene from a movie you love, and let things get out of hand
#36 - Write a sexy letter and leave it in your partner’s car for them to find
#37 - Take your time washing each other – keep it slow and sensual from head to toe
#38 - Go skinny dipping
#39 - Fool around in a bubble bath

#40 - Create a scavenger hunt in your home for your partner to follow – the reward at the end is you!
#41 - Create a sexy playlist together, hit play, and see how many songs you can last

#42 - Go slow enough to take the whole night
#43 - Create an ideas jar full of slips of paper with sexy suggestions. Agree to draw out pieces of paper and let them dictate the night.
#44 - Do it in the kitchen

#45 - Make it into a competition
#46 - Get verbal: one partner touches, and the other keeps up a steady stream of directions and appreciation. If the talking stops, so does the touch.
#47 - Spend the whole day in bed together
#48 - Play with fun foods

#49 - Set a timer dedicated to foreplay only
#50 - Text them a sexy photo

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Getting out of your old routine and into something new and exciting is the whole point of a sexual bucket list – and The Adventure Challenge …In Bed was designed to help you do just that.

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